Friday, April 19, 2013

Remembering our Ginge....


                                            Today would have been my Grandma Gin Gin's
                                            birthday. Just remembering her with a smile, as
                                            she was always happy and laughing, even if her
                                            hip hurt !!



                                                   
                                               Always stylish ! At my parents wedding
                                             she wore this amazing dress, beige with copper
                                             threading detail and a copper belt holding a bustle
                                                of netting at the back...and her bejeweled
                                                                   "Cat Eyed" glasses.


                                                     
                                                  Holding me at a wedding, were I was the
                                                  flower girl with a pixie hair cut ! I just
                                                  loved those turquoise plastic bead necklaces
                                                  she wore, and the feather hat.





                                                       The year...1992 ! At our wedding.
                                                   When I walked down the isle, passing the
                                                   front row where Ginge was sitting, she said
                                                   out loud "Yahoo, he finally married her!"






                                                    Me, posing with Herbie the Lovebug !!!
                                                   Ginge's car, which I loved so much. She
                                                   would take my sister and I to Bob's Big Boy
                                                   drive-in for dinner.





                                                        
                                               The words I wrote and read in April 2002.

  
                                                A simple word that describes Ginge is Fun.
                                               She was funny, uplifting and just nice to be around.
                                               She was easy going, had a positive outlook, and
                                               always saw the bright side of everything. She was
                                               strong in body and spirit, all qualities to be imitated.

                                               Ginge never complained... and if she did have a problem,
                                               she made light of it always laughing.  She could rise to
                                               any occasion, and was always there if you needed her, to
                                               listen or help.
                                               
                                               She provided the best snacks and junk food. She always
                                               had the latest new cookie..."Oooo have you tried these..
                                               they're soooo good !"

                                               A buffet of cookies and candy were lined up along her kitchen
                                               counter.

                                               She called us " Lovie" and "Doll", squeezed the stuffing out
                                               of us with her hugs, she kissed our cheeks hard.
                                              
                                               She was a mother, a grandmother, a playmate, a friend.

                                                       We will miss her so !

                                              Her back door was always open, coffee waiting, and a good
                                              conversation to be had. She had many friends, unique friends,                                                  all who adored her.  
 
                                              Her love for her family and friends was unconditional, genuine
                                              and without expectation.
 
                                              A true giver, as we all should be !!! Putting others before ourselves.
 
                                              Ginge collected "Suns".  Ceramics, paintings, glass suns hung on
                                              the walls of her home. She wore orange and yellow and shirts with
                                              "Sun" faces on them.
 
                                              In writing this about my grandma I realized... That Ginge was
                                              the Sun.  Warm and bright and cheerful, full of life. Her arms
                                              like rays embracing you.  When you are in the warmth of the sun,
                                                                                 Think of Ginge...
 
                                              and laugh, then smile and hug someone really tight, that's what
                                              she would want.
 
 
 
                                                                          Have a Blessed Day, 
                                                                                      Amy                                                              

2 comments:

  1. I just loved your Grandma Ginge! I'll never forget driving with her up to Mammoth in her Herbie Lovebug-- just the two of us. She was the best. When I think if her-- I think of her laughter and always her smile. She was always such great fun. Feel very blessed that I knew her :)

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  2. I wish I could have known Ginge! What a beautiful tribute to your wonderful grandmother, Amy! xxoo

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